10 ways to boost your emotional intelligence:

1. Do things when you are sober and read when you are confused;

2. Don't be too confident and don't get too close to people too quickly;

3. Don't say things that you shouldn't say in front of others, and don't say them behind their backs;

4. When you are most angry, hold back the words that hurt the other person the most;

5. Humor and meanness are two different things, and frankness and outspokenness are two different things;

6. Don't tell lies easily if there is no absolute need and you are sure that you will not be exposed;

7. It's okay for others to make fun of themselves, but you must not agree with them;

8. Don't bring negative energy to the people around you;

9. Trust with measure and doubt with reason;

10. The closer the person is, the more you should treat him with care. An inadvertent word may hurt him.