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Young people from ordinary families want to change their fate. The first step is to get rid of the "poor mentality"
Here are some suggestions for getting rid of the "poor mentality":
1. Establish the concept of "time value".
Reduce doing things that "take more time and get less benefits";
For example, in order to get a 30 yuan discount on a piece of clothing, spend half a day looking for the same style on the Internet. In order to save 10 yuan in fare, choose to ride a bicycle, and it takes an hour to get to the place that can be reached in 10 minutes
2. Remember that "sunk costs" cannot be pursued.
If the money has been spent in the wrong way, wasting time is a mistake on top of a mistake;
3. Cultivate a "goal-oriented" mindset.
If your actions do not allow you to reach your goal, you must stop, reflect on where the problem lies, and then set a reasonable action plan.
4. Reduce meaningless frequent decisions and save precious willpower;
For some activities that require a lot of willpower, such as learning foreign languages, losing weight, learning musical instruments, etc., it is best to choose only one at a stage. More will affect your judgment when making major decisions. People's energy, physical strength and time are limited. You always have to make choices and choose the most valuable things for yourself.
5. Expand your horizons and do some "useless" things in front of you appropriately to prevent yourself from entering a "peeping" state that only focuses on the present, and establish a long-term planning battle path awareness.
When I first started working, I completely got rid of exams and homework, and I subconsciously felt that learning was the most "useless" thing at the moment. So my spare time was wasted in various ways, playing games, chatting, chasing dramas... and things about learning were completely forgotten.
In the long run, my own abilities did not grow, and my salary and benefits would not fluctuate too much. When facing the stage of enterprise reform, I became the first victim. This is the dilemma faced by most people who were laid off.
Always remember - the real poverty is not the lack of money, but being stuck in the vicious circle of poor thinking.