What is the essence of attraction between men and women?
1. Girls are like cats. The harder you push them, the farther they will get from you. On the contrary, the more you push them away, the closer they will get.
2. Most boys cannot chase the girls they like. They lose 70% in appearance, 30% in chatting, and 90% in the mentality of being worried about gains and losses.
3. Whether two people can be together in the end has nothing to do with appearance. It all depends on whether their personalities are compatible.
4. Women who need you to chase them probably don't like you. It is a high probability that you can't catch them. If you catch them, you will be easily disliked.
5. Generally, if a girl really likes you, she won't let you chase her for too long. The so-called reserve is just that you don't like them enough, but you don't have a better choice.
6. The reason why men and women can attract each other is mostly because they can meet each other's needs (spiritual needs, material needs, physiological needs, and face needs).
7. Men's eyes can't deceive people, and women's bodies can't deceive people. When a man falls in love with a woman, he will appreciate her, care for her, and accompany her from body to soul.
When a woman falls in love with a man, she will also be willing to have physical contact with him. If a man makes a woman feel disgusted. Even if they have been together for ten years, she is unwilling to have any physical contact with him.
8. When you are in love, you rely on feelings, as long as you are happy, but after marriage, you rely on value. If there is no continuous value contribution, the end must be unhappy.
Love is so beautiful, but it cannot escape this naked reality.
9. The stable and long-term relationship of adults is to form a community of interests, meet each other's needs, and mix with complicated interests and complex emotions.
The so-called love, family affection and friendship are just a layer of good-looking skin on the interest relationship. The skin is good-looking, but the essence has not changed.
10. Half of the troubles in life are to agree too quickly and refuse too slowly.
If you can do the opposite, agree slowly and refuse more directly, you can reduce a lot of troubles. Sometimes, even if you are like a docile cat, he will dislike you for shedding hair.
11. The highest level of love a man can show to a woman is to teach her social survival skills and provide her with resources and help, so that even if he leaves her one day, she can be independent and live a decent life.
