When others offer you opportunities, you must distinguish whether it is an opportunity or a trap; when others entertain you, you must differentiate whether it is positive energy or negative energy. You must be someone who has a sense of right and wrong, adhering to your bottom line; someone with their own opinions, who knows how to refuse. Only in this way can we stay away from the big promises others paint for you, avoid the traps they dig for you, keep our blessings, and maintain our peace!