We want to achieve all our lifelong achievements in our twenties and thirties.
Mom said, look at other people, their children are so old.
Society said, look at other people, how much money they have earned, and bought cars and houses.
So we also think that we should achieve something at this age.
But, to be honest, at this age, we don’t have the ability to achieve anything.
The long school education did not teach us real survival skills.
The so-called family education is often mixed with hurt, restraint and downward pull.
We are like wheat seedlings that have just sprouted tremblingly, and they need to go through a summer of repair and nurturing before they can mature.
Only two types of people can harvest at this stage. One is that there is enough guidance in the early stage, or the family has laid a lot of resources, and he only needs to execute and do it according to the plan.
The other is the desperate people, desperately squeezing their time, health and energy, desperately trying to pry open every opportunity, plus vision and good luck, in exchange for more fruitful harvests than others.
But most people lack a little luck to do the former, and a little ruthlessness to do the latter. The best way left is to slowly transform at your own pace, accept the hardships you should encounter, do not back down from the problems you should deal with, correct your goals again and again, overcome the tests step by step, and accumulate years and months until you reach the height you want.
So, don't blame yourself, you have done a good job.