Society is a melting pot, where all kinds of people and things interweave, forming a complex life. Some people say that society is very realistic, some people say that society is very warm, but I want to ask, how realistic is society? Today, I will tell you 10 truths, I hope you can hold on after reading them.
1. Society will not change because of your efforts
Many people always think that as long as they work hard, they will definitely gain something, but the reality is often not the case. Society is cruel, it will not show mercy to you because of your hard work. Sometimes, your efforts will only become a stepping stone for others to succeed.
2. Connections are more important than abilities
In this materialistic society, connections are almost everywhere, and you can go further if you have a face. Many times, even if you are capable, it is difficult to gain a foothold in the workplace without certain connections.
3. Money is always the hard truth
Some people say that money is not everything, but without money, nothing can be done. In this materialistic society, money is always the hard truth. It can make you live a better life and gain more respect.
4. Few people can see the efforts behind success
Many people always envy successful people, but few people pay attention to the efforts and sweat behind them. Success is not accidental, it requires dedication, persistence, and countless failures and setbacks.
5. Society’s definition of beauty is diverse
In this society where appearance is prevalent, many people always feel that they are not good-looking enough. In fact, society’s definition of beauty is diverse. It is not just about appearance, but also about inner cultivation and temperament. Only all-round beauty can be recognized by society.
6. You never know what others are thinking
In this complex society, you never know what others are thinking. Sometimes, when others smile at you, it may not be because they like you. Sometimes, when others are nice to you, it may not be because they are sincere. Only by learning to protect yourself can you gain a foothold in society.
7. There are more traps in society than you think
In this society full of temptations, there are more traps than you can imagine, and some of them even make you want to die. Only by learning to distinguish right from wrong and rejecting temptations can you stay away from social traps and embark on a bright road.
8. Social fairness does not exist
Many people always think that society should be fair, but reality tells us that fairness in society does not exist. Some people are born at the starting point of success, while others have to start from scratch. Therefore, only by learning to accept unfairness can we live a better life.
9. The moral values in society are declining
With the continuous development of society, people's moral concepts are constantly declining. More and more people only care about themselves and ignore the feelings of others. Such a society is full of fraud and lies. Only by learning to protect yourself can you gain a foothold in such a society.
10. What society needs is your uniqueness
In this diverse society, everyone is unique. What society needs is not your uniformity, but your uniqueness. Only when you have your own ideas and style can you stand out in society and do what you want to do.
Conclusion:
Society is a big book, and each of us is a reader of this book. I hope that through today’s sharing, you can have a deeper understanding of society, and find your own piece of pure land in this complex society.