The comfort you strive for is the comfort zone that some people would rather leave than give up half their lives. In this world, people have different values. Some people are born to like comfort, like to find a stable job, and like to stay the same for a long time to gain a sense of security.
But another group of people like to venture out, like to explore, and like to use their careers to prove their value. Unchanging means lifeless, and stability means stagnation and regression.
The delicacies in your eyes are stinking in the eyes of such people. What you strive for is what they throw away. The two groups of people can't stand each other. This is the difference in the three views. We are all rushing to our own different lives.