15 sobering sentences in the world
1. Those who can really hold on to great wealth must have passed the emotional test. When wealth reaches a certain level, people will start to spend money because of love. Passing the emotional test is not only about getting out of the hurt, but also about going through all the joys and sorrows. It is just an experience, and experience is not equal to practice. Between joys and sorrows, it is considered practice to experience impermanence and the cause and effect of fate. In this process, you will find that many problems are unsolvable. For everything that has happened, just accept it without struggling. Don't regret being nice to anyone, even if you have misjudged someone or have been let down. Real practice and real freedom should be without distinction, attachment, and delusion.
2. As long as you don't pay attention to anyone's dynamics, guess anyone's thoughts, and don't imagine things that haven't happened. Make your lifestyle simpler and your pace of life slower, and you will find that you are particularly comfortable.
3. Occasionally, fate will arrange a serious illness or a major property loss for you. Its purpose is not to defeat you, but to break your habitual pace of life. These experiences are designed to urge you to slow down, observe and understand the true face of human nature. They are an opportunity for you to re-examine your past lifestyle and an important moment for you to deeply understand your life choices. Through these challenges, you may find a new direction in life and achieve inner transformation and growth.
4. People have thousands of faces and their hearts change. Talk less when you see people, don't get involved when you see things, keep your mouth shut and don't cause trouble, keep your heart and don't make mistakes, repair your heart, and establish your own virtue. What the world can't fight for is a bowl of fireworks in the world, but this bowl of fireworks in the world burns away all the melancholy and vicissitudes of the world. It's hard to become a person without poverty, and it's always innocent without setbacks; human feelings are as thin as paper, and the world is like a new chess game; poor in the downtown, no one asks, rich in the mountains, there are distant relatives.
5. When you are alive, few people are watching, and after you die, few people will remember you. Really, the people who really care about you and hate you in this world, combined, can't count these five fingers.
Therefore, our main task is to be good to yourself first, and you will be the one who will never let yourself down.
6. We only come to this world once, and after a hundred years, there will be no you and no me!We fight for our whole life, but we can't take away a brick or a tile. We stick to our whole life, but we can't take away a trace of care! Life is short, and things are impermanent. Eat the food you want to eat, meet the people you want to meet, see the scenery you like, and do the things you like.
7. When you have no love, no hatred, and no others in your heart, you will be reborn. Although the process is painful, you will find that losing is more practical than having. What you have, you will lose. What you care about, what tortures you, what you care about, what bothers you.
8. The most taboo in life is too perfect. If you don't believe it, look at the people around you: some people have bad marriages, but their children are excellent; some people have good marriages, but their health is not very good; some people have a smooth career, but their family is not harmonious; some people have a harmonious family, but their life is very poor. The best state of life is "seeking deficiency but not fullness": blessings cannot be enjoyed completely, let three points to others; benefits cannot be taken completely, leave three points to others; merits cannot be greedy, share three points to others, so that life can be truly perfect.
9. There is nothing in life that cannot be put down. There is no need to worry about it all the time. Reunion is not the beginning, and separation is not the end. Perhaps, the person who does not contact you cares about you more than anyone else.
10. People should stay busy. Being busy is the cheapest medicine in the world. The best way to heal yourself is to be busy and sleep. Once you are busy, you will have fewer negative emotions and no time to think about it. If a person is busy with a purpose, he will slowly find that being busy is the best medicine to cure everything.
11. Never force anyone around you to awaken, even if your realm is already very high, your cognition is already very high, you are already very transparent, you are already very open-minded, and even if you yourself have been able to be enlightened, be careful not to do so. Life is never perfect. Everyone has their own shortcomings, difficulties, troubles, and lifestyles. Only living well in the present is the most important thing.
12. Don't be too capable when you are alive. People who are too capable will have poor health when they are old. When you cry tired, no one wants to listen. Money is spent by others, but sin is borne by oneself. You should remember that health always comes first.
13. Don't worry. People have different paces of life. Some people cook instant noodles in three minutes, some people cook soup in three hours, some people have their takeaways delivered, and some people have just cut garlic and meat.When you calmly do what you should do, life will give you what it should give you, one by one at the right time. A good life is not in a hurry.
14. Don't argue with anyone for the rest of your life. Even if someone says one plus one equals seven, you should smile and say that you are right. If your heart is big, things will be small. If your heart is wide, your troubles will be gone. The rest of your life is short, don't care about anyone, because those who care about anyone will be unhappy first, so you have to love yourself well. Don't lose your appetite for people and things that are not worth it. Don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes. Forgive everything before going to bed. When you wake up, everything can be expected. Letting go of others is actually letting go of yourself.
15. If living is not for happiness, then what is the meaning of living? Life is only 30,000 days, don't make it difficult for yourself. You have to care about only three things: your money, your health, and your inner peace. The secret to staying happy is: it doesn't matter, it's not necessary, and it won't happen. Once your heart is calm, the outside world will be silent. As long as your heart is not panicked, even the world will have a hard time affecting you. Don't believe that pressure can be transformed into motivation. Pressure can only be transformed into a case.