When people leave, they are forgotten. When the son of a colleague who left the company got married, he personally brought a stack of wedding invitations to the company to distribute them, but many people accepted the invitations but did not go?
This colleague did not send invitations to everyone. Those who received invitations were those who had received gifts from him before, and some of them more than once. As for those who were not familiar with him or those who joined the company later, he did not send any invitations at all. He probably sent out about 20 to 30 invitations. Everyone who received the invitations congratulated him with a smile and said they would definitely come to support him!
After my colleague left, the people who received the invitation started to talk about it. There were many opinions. Some said that he had already resigned but still sent the invitation. Wasn’t it just to collect money? Some said that we would not have any interactions in the future. He was just an ex-colleague and there was no need to go. Anyway, most people said that they were not going to go! I thought to myself, since you have accepted the invitation, how can you not go? Besides, you have received gifts from him before!
I have a pretty good relationship with this former colleague. When I first came to the company, this colleague took good care of me. We have worked together for eight or nine years and our relationship has always been very good. When I got married, he was also busy helping me with the arrangements and helped me a lot, so no matter what, I was going to go!
A few days before the wedding, several colleagues came to me and said that they didn't have time to go, so they asked me to bring gifts for them. It's reasonable to bring gifts even if they don't show up. I was happy to help!
But what happened on the wedding day was beyond my expectations! More than 20 invitations were sent out, and my colleagues prepared three tables of banquets, but in the end, only three other colleagues and I went. In addition to the three colleagues who asked me to give gifts, the others did not go, and did not give gifts. Looking at the three empty tables of banquets, with only four of us, I could clearly feel that my colleagues were unhappy! I quietly asked him what his plans were, and he smiled and said: Since they are so unkind, don't blame me for being ungrateful. This is no longer a matter of gift money, this is a slap in my face! Alas, I can only persuade him helplessly. This is how it is in the company. When people leave, the friendship fades. No matter how many gifts you gave out when you were working, it is not easy to get them back after you leave!
On the second day after the wedding, a colleague came to the company again, bringing wedding candies with him. He smiled and distributed wedding candies to everyone who received the invitations but didn't go, and said, "Oh, I was too busy yesterday and had too many relatives and friends. I didn't even notice that you didn't go, and I didn't call and invite everyone. It's really my fault. I'm here today to apologize to everyone." This made that person feel ashamed, and they hurriedly found various excuses, pretending that they had forgotten about something. The thin-skinned ones quickly transferred all the gift money to him and ran away. Some of them even tried to avoid him, but he was not afraid of those wearing shoes even if he was barefoot, and he blocked people in the department and said, "If you don't transfer the gift money, I will keep apologizing to you." In the end, all the gift money was given to everyone who received the invitations!
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