How do people from the lower classes cross the social hierarchy?
(1) Do things first
(2) Establish a reputation later
(3) Mix with others
(4) Make connections
(Remember not to do it the other way around)
There is a sequence for an ordinary or even lower-class person to succeed.
Step 1: Do things
You must have your own main battlefield, a craft, a skill that is irreplaceable. You must have something that you can really show off. Only then can you have the first step and start. If you are a lawyer, you must win a few difficult lawsuits. If you are a doctor, you must use your medical skills to prove that you can bring people back to life.
So people always have to go through a period of loneliness and solitude to consolidate what they can "start".
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Step 2: Establish a reputation
This name is fame and personality. You have to find a way to let others know you, understand you, know what you have done, and understand what you are capable of. What benefits can they get from associating with you? People in society are all profit-seeking, and it is impossible to be open-hearted with an unknown person.
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Step 3: Mixing circles
When you have a name, you have actually left the bottom. If you still want to continue to climb up, you can't always toss in your own small circle. You have to constantly expand new circles.
The breadth of the circle determines your possibilities, your opportunities, and your upper limit; the depth of the circle and your bond determines whether you can go further and more easily. And the social reputation and attributes you have accumulated before determine whether your circle will accept you.
A director of a tertiary hospital will have quite a lot of entrepreneur friends, and a famous lawyer can have morning tea with celebrities. This is the siphoning brought by reputation and attributes.
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Step 4: Connections
Connections can mobilize and even actively provide connections to help you. Those friends who like the likes in the mobile phone book and WeChat are not called connections. You should use the resources and abilities in your hands to help others, so that the backbone people can help you, and constantly strengthen your connections through the exchange of interests.
Through the people in the circle, you can constantly meet new friends and new connections. If you are still a newbie, you can start by learning a skill or specialty, which we call unique skills in the circle, such as copywriting, PS, photography, makeup, etc. You can also be good enough in your job, such as becoming an excellent math teacher.In short, a person's fame cannot be greater than his ability, otherwise it is very dangerous...