Although the big shot always says that people should be filial to their parents.
But if the parents' cognition is too poor, you still can't listen to them completely.
For example.
When girls are looking for a partner, they should distinguish whether the advice given by their parents is right or problematic. If the advice given by their parents is not practical at all, then they can't listen. Otherwise, if you listen to your parents completely, let alone find a rich second-generation, even finding a better boyfriend will be difficult.
Uncle Peng has seen girls from poor families who have married well. They generally have their own opinions on the matter of marriage.
Just like a girl I met.
She herself is a female master's degree holder from the countryside. She doesn't look good. She is less than 160 cm tall, short, and dark, but fortunately she is not fat. It's just that she was malnourished when she was a child, which made her short, thin, and dark. Then after graduating from her master's degree, she went to a large state-owned enterprise, where she met another potential stock from the countryside. This man also has a master's degree.
She fell in love with this man. At this time, the man had nothing, just a good education, a good job, and he didn't look good.
The girl's parents disliked the man's poverty and disagreed, but the girl didn't listen to her parents and married the boy. When the two of them got married, they didn't even have a ceremony. They just invited good friends to have a meal, which was considered a ceremony. After the ceremony, the two of them saved money to buy a house together. They worked hard together. Now they have two houses in a big city, one fully paid for improvement and a second-hand house. They have two children.
Their annual family income is now around 500,000 yuan, and the housing loan and provident fund can cover it. They have a house and a car, and they live a good life.
The girl's parents thought that their daughter would be able to find a man with good conditions if she went to a large state-owned enterprise, but in fact, with her daughter's appearance, men with good conditions would not look down on her. It is already very good that her daughter can find a potential stock.