Is there any moment when you suddenly let go?
Zhu Yin said: "If that person really loves you so much, you can't leave, and you can't run away, unless he intends to let you go, what else do you not understand."
Hayao Miyazaki has a romantic quote: In fact, I knew we were not suitable a long time ago. But I still rejected everyone and walked with you for a period of time without results. Although the time was not long, it was unforgettable for a lifetime. I can't keep you or let you go. It's like I was sitting by the lake, thinking it was the seaside, I was blowing the lakeside wind, thinking it was the sea breeze. But the lake is the lake and the sea is the sea, you are you, and I am me.
Zhang Ailing: The moment someone left you, he must have felt that he would live a better life without you at a certain moment. At that moment, it is not worth forgiving for a lifetime.
Mr. Yang Jiang once wrote: "No matter what kind of relationship, when affection is exhausted, fate has come to an end. No one is right or wrong. In the end, all the mistakes should be attributed to oneself, and then politely exit. Return yourself to yourself, return others to others, let flowers grow into flowers, let trees grow into trees, and never meet again after a journey of mountains and rivers."
There is a sentence in The Shawshank Redemption: "One day you will laugh and tell the things that once made you painful."
There is a passage in Camel Xiangzi: "There are not many truths in this world. A woman's blush is better than a long dialogue." But later, with rouge, it is hard to tell whether it is true or false.
After seeing this passage in The Golden Years, it seems that many regrets in life have been let go. "Not all of the people you meet, admire, get along with, and like in your life can fall in love and become husband and wife. Some become friends, some become colleagues, and some can only meet once after many years. Different fates lead to different relationships. Just enjoy it."
There is no empathy in this world. You can be depressed, complain, or even collapse, but you must know how to heal yourself. It is never life that gets better, but yourself. When your heart is strong enough, no one can affect your heart. Later, I decided not to dwell on some things. Those people who I once thought were very important, those questions that never had answers, suddenly let go.
