In the complicated world of interpersonal communication, my father's wisdom over the years has given me valuable guidance:
1. The secret of interpersonal communication
In interpersonal communication, cowardice often does not win the favor of others. If you often appear nervous, timid, or even humbly cater to others, you may encounter more challenges and malice. On the contrary, the display of firmness and strength will become a solid barrier for you to withstand the wind and rain.
2. The power of the bottom line
People always try to explore your bottom line to understand who you are. Therefore, setting a higher bottom line and firmly defending it is the key to protecting yourself from being violated. When someone touches your bottom line, fight back decisively to let them know that you are inviolable.
3. The importance of immediate counterattack
When others attack you with words, don't choose to remain silent. Timely counterattacks can not only let the other party know your bottom line, but also prevent them from making the same mistake again. Silence will only make the other party feel that you are weak and can be bullied, and even make people around you mistakenly think that you can also be easily offended.
4. Beware of the risk of being manipulated
When you first meet, some people may use small requests to test whether you are easy to be controlled. For example, they ask you to close the door, pour water, etc. If you agree easily, they may gradually make higher demands. Therefore, stay vigilant and don't let others easily take control of you.
5. Strength is better than kindness
In interpersonal communication, strength is often more important than kindness. People respect you more because of your ability and strength, not your kindness. Therefore, only by constantly improving your strength can you win the respect and recognition of others.
6. The importance of self-feelings
In interacting with others, don't cater to others too much and ignore your feelings. Only by paying attention to your inner needs can you maintain your true self.
7. Be brave to express
Don't be afraid that your opinions are different from others. Bravely express your ideas, even if you conflict with others, can show your independence and confidence.
8. Struggle and peace
In interpersonal relationships, struggle and peace coexist. Don't just tolerate in order to maintain superficial peace. Only by fighting for peace can your relationship be more stable.
9. Face Conflict
Conflict is an inevitable part of interpersonal communication. Don't be afraid of conflict, but learn to stay calm in conflict and find a way to solve the problem. Only in this way can you be invincible in conflict.
10. Respect winners
In interpersonal communication, people tend to respect those who can win. Therefore, work hard to be a winner and win the respect and recognition of others with your strength.
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