A person's biggest failure is not having no money or power, being heavily in debt, or living a humble life, but being unable to see hope.
The word "hope" is like a lamp, illuminating the way forward, dispersing darkness, bringing light to people, warmth to the world, and happiness to thousands of households.
However, not everyone can have a peaceful life, and not everyone can have a worry-free life. There are too many people who are rushing to make money and live in the process of anxiety.
Some young people are unemployed after graduating from college. They can't even find a partner and have trouble supporting themselves. Some middle-aged people have started a family and started a business. Who knows that they are burdened with a lot of debts and have to raise one or two "gold-eating beasts"? People are tired.
There is a saying on the Internet: "All days are made through hard work. All life are made through hard work."
No one knows what lies ahead. People only know that if they don't keep going, there will be no hope. We must firmly believe that there is no real desperate situation in this world. What we lack is just the spirit.
If one day you are in debt and can’t even see any hope, remember these four sentences and believe that God will help you.
1. Throw yourself to death and survive; throw yourself to death and survive.
When the military strategist Sun Wu led his troops to fight, he discovered that when the battle went smoothly, the soldiers would relax their vigilance and be easily counterattacked by the opponent.
Once a soldier falls into a difficult situation, there are only two states: either fight to the death to stimulate his potential and hope to survive; or he chooses to defect and become a prisoner of the enemy.
In response to the situation of "fighting to the death", Sun Wu wrote in "The Art of War": "Throw yourself to death and survive; leave it to death and survive."
Regardless of whether it is a group or an individual, as long as it is in trouble, it is best to mobilize its own potential to seek survival. The more difficult it is, the more courageous it is to burst out with the spirit of "Although there are thousands of people, I will go on".
There are many entrepreneurs who take this famous saying to heart. Even if they go bankrupt at the age of fifty, they persevere and make a comeback a few years later, or continue to start a business when they are old.
A person's true ability lies not in moving forward steadily in good times, but in tapping his potential in times of adversity.
2. The eyes must be accurate, the hands must be quick, the mouth must be tight, and the heart must be ruthless.
Since we talk about stimulating potential in adversity, what do these potentials have to do with? It has to do with people’s posture.
Cao Cao was chased by the enemy and fled to Lu Boshe's house with Chen Gong. One night, Cao Cao heard someone sharpening a knife outside his room. Cao Cao did not hesitate and killed Lu Boxe's family directly.
After Chen Gong woke up, he found that Cao Cao was so cruel that he killed Lu Boshe's family, so he asked Cao Cao, why were you so cruel that you didn't even let go of your savior?
Cao Cao only replied: "I would rather teach me to betray the people of the world than teach the people of the world to betray me." Later, Cao Cao unified the north and was known as Emperor Wu of Wei in history. There is a poem that goes: "Thousands of years ago, Wei Wu whipped his whip, and there was a posthumous chapter in Jieshi in the east."
If you work hard in the arena, you will not be able to stand firm if you are not ruthless. To do things, you usually have to have "accurate eyes, quick hands, a tight mouth, and a cruel heart." If you do these four things well, you can basically achieve a certain career, start from scratch, and become a boss.
Maybe being too cruel will make people feel bad. But in fact, if sheep are not cruel, there will be no good results. But the courage of a lone wolf to walk alone is truly extraordinary.
3. If you want to achieve great things, you must change your cowardice; if you want to rise, you must first be thick-faced.
Mr. Li Zongwu, the geek of the Republic of China, once put forward such a point of view-thick black.
Back then, when Mr. Li Zongwu was watching "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms", he felt that Cao Cao, Liu Bei and Sun Quan could not unify the world. As soon as Sima Yi appeared, Mr. Li Zongwu stood up and said, "This is a big deal."
Why did Mr. Li Zongwu feel that as soon as Sima Yi appeared on the scene, he must be the one to dominate the world? Because Sima Yi achieved the ultimate in the word "thick black".
The so-called "thick black" means firstly that the face is as thick as a city wall, and secondly that the heart is as black as coal. To put it bluntly, you need to be determined in your heart, tough in character, and deep-skinned, and you can basically get things done.
Taking personality as an example, many people are hesitant and even have a "good old guy" personality. In this way, it is inevitable that the hemp rope will be broken at the smallest point, and the misfortune will only seek out the miserable people.
The more difficult you are in, the more conducive it is to cultivating your character and sharpening your thick skin. If you can improve your character, you will be rewarded for the rest of your life.
4. Avoid anxiety and be more calm; hide in the dark and learn to be tolerant.
Our ancestors have a saying: "Pretend to be a pig and eat the tiger, and you will make a fortune in silence."
When you are capable, you should also pretend to be incapable and put pigskin on yourself. The more things go wrong, the more you have to endure it and make money silently in secret.
Many people wonder why they have to make money in secret and make money in silence without letting others know that they are making money. Because not everyone wants others to live well.
You can't talk to others about making money. Especially when you have not yet succeeded, you should keep your mouth shut, be tight-lipped, try to avoid the attention of others, and develop yourself silently.
There is a saying in "The Book of Changes": "A gentleman keeps his weapons in his body and waits for the time to move."
A truly capable gentleman will calm down his mind and body while hiding behind others so that no one will know. I believe that in the near future, like the King of Chuzhuang, they will be reborn, reborn from the ashes, and become a blockbuster without making a sound.
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