Let's talk about something outside the circle, about life!

How do parents ruin their children?

When you were young, they suppressed you,

When you grew up, they told you to be more confident.

When you were young, they told you not to compare your food and clothes with others,

When you grew up, if you don't compare, they say you are not ambitious.

When you were in school, they told you not to fall in love early,

After graduation, they told you to get married soon.

In childhood, they demanded rigid integrity like Hai Rui,

When you grew up, they demanded flexibility and cunning like Qin Hui.