Grandma is the daughter of a wealthy family. In Grandma's view, even her own children are only helped if they are capable; she absolutely will not rob the rich to help the poor. Now I understand this perspective: helping the strong will make the strong even stronger, and they will gradually change and overcome. If you help the weak, it will drag everyone down, and because it comes too easily, the weak will be even less motivated to strive. Therefore, many issues are fundamentally different at the root of thought.