Before his death, the world's richest man told his son the "unwritten rules of the world":
1. The first: Do not trust anyone; trust human nature. Those who hope you become better are your parents; those who fear you becoming too good are your relatives; those who wish you ill are your colleagues.
2. The second: No one will respect you because you respect them; they will only respect you because they need you.
3. The third: Do not hold any spiritual purism towards anyone; every soul in this world is half human and half ghost, and getting too close makes it impossible to see anyone clearly.
4. The fourth: When interests align, strangers become friends; when interests disappear, friends become strangers.
5. The fifth: The more experiences one has, the more indifferent they become; it’s not that they have lost the ability to interact with others, but rather that they have lost interest in playing along with others.
6. The sixth: Do not take yourself too seriously, but do not underestimate your worth either. Overestimating yourself will make you disregard others, while underestimating yourself will cause you to miss opportunities.
7. The seventh: Before you achieve anything, do not emphasize your self-esteem too much, because no one will care.
8. The eighth: Do not try to change anyone, nor expect anyone to change because of you.