I was 22 and childless when I got divorced. Now I am 32, divorced again, and have no plans to remarry. I really didn’t know what I wanted when I got married the first time; I just felt it was time to get married because of my age, and I ended up marrying without any clear reason.

My ex-wife was a completely different person before and after marriage. She used to work, but after we got married, she stopped going to work. I gave her 20,000 yuan in pocket money every month and paid off another 20,000 yuan in credit card bills. All the shopping and dining out was paid for by me, and I felt like I had to spend 60,000 to 80,000 yuan on her each year. Later, I discovered she was cheating on me. I decisively got a divorce, and at that time, she was involved with a younger guy and agreed to leave with nothing.

After the divorce, I realized how much money I actually had; my finances suddenly became more comfortable. At that time, Bitcoin was $1,000 each, and I invested everything I had.

Later, in 2017, Bitcoin surged to $18,000, an 18-fold increase, and I cashed out at the peak. I directly bought the dream toy I had always wanted, a Rolls-Royce Phantom, and drove it for 2 years.

I feel that these past 7 years after the divorce have been the life I truly wanted.