Many parents of young people born in the 1990s and 2000s find it difficult to understand the difficulties their children face in their growth and development. Many of them find it difficult to understand why their excellent children who have studied in college and graduate school cannot find a good job.
In their eyes, the couple has worked hard all their lives to get their children into college and graduate school, and has spent a lot of time and money to raise their children.
According to their expectations, after their children graduate from college/graduate school, they should be able to find a high-paying, stable, good-benefits, and decent job, be able to support themselves, live a happy life, and make money to support their family.
After all, 20 or 30 years ago, the economy developed rapidly, jobs increased dramatically, and the number of high-end talents needed also increased dramatically, but talents with higher education were scarce.
Not to mention college students, masters and doctors, they are very popular everywhere. Even if you graduate from a technical secondary school or a junior college, you may be assigned a job. People who graduate from ordinary junior colleges can enter the system and get a stable job, and even get a house. So they work hard to send their children to school since they were young, hoping that after their children graduate from college, they can also lead the whole family to live a happy life like those people they have seen before who have made great strides through studying and going to school. Therefore, it is really difficult for them to understand why the outstanding college students/graduate students they have cultivated for so many years, so much money, and so much energy can't find a good job after graduation and can't get into the system after graduation? So they think that their children are too ambitious and evade society, that their children don't work hard during college, and that their children are not active enough in finding jobs, seeking employment, taking civil service exams, and taking civil service exams. However, after 20 or 30 years, the environment has really changed. After 20 or 30 years of expansion and development of colleges and universities, among young people, there are many more college students and graduate students than 20 years ago, and the number has increased sharply, but the high-end and high-quality jobs and establishments that can match college students and graduate students have not increased so much, and are already very saturated. If parents have no connections and no ability, they can only rely on themselves to study and go to college, and then pass/apply for good jobs that meet employment expectations. The child is not wrong, and the parents are not wrong. It's just bad luck that they ran into such an environment. It's really helpless. In the face of the tide of the times, individuals have no power to fight back.
