I lost more than 400,000 yuan in betrothal gifts by playing contracts, and I am in debt of hundreds of thousands of yuan (from Coinsradar.net)

🔥The first stage - addiction

I am a native Shanghai woman, born in the 1990s, and I am also in my 30s. I have been in the cryptocurrency circle for nearly 5 years. I started to get involved in this in 2019 because I have a boyfriend who loves to trade cryptocurrencies. Other people's dates may be to watch TV and eat, but our dates are to go to Shanghai Coffee House to check the market.

At the beginning, I didn't play much. I would stop playing if I lost 500 yuan a day. After all, the salary was only 8,000-9,000 yuan at that time. I played like this, and my monthly salary was also handed over there. I couldn't afford to buy clothes or bags, and all of it was used for cryptocurrency trading.

In those years, I became addicted to playing this. I felt uncomfortable if I didn't play for a day. At most, I couldn't help watching the market and doing contracts for no more than 3 days. I can't calculate how much money I lost in total. It's probably my monthly salary plus a credit card with a limit of 30,000 yuan.

⭐The second stage - the beginning of real debt

Because I got married 2 years ago, my parents gave me a dowry. I played small before, and now I think the main reason was that I had no money. After I became rich, I started to play big. In addition to the wedding gifts and the change of name fees from both parents, it was about 400,000 yuan. Only 30,000 yuan was used to buy home appliances, and the rest was given in.

Others say that gamblers have a good husband, and I am no exception. Apart from gambling, I am very frugal in daily expenses, and I have a gentle personality, honest and introverted, so my husband is very confident in me and never checks our assets.

After marriage, he kept his salary for four years for me to keep, and all the money that was not carefully calculated was buried in my hands. I also feel very sorry for him. Every time I think of this, I will be very painful and grow a lot of white hair that does not match my age.

💥The third stage - mentality

Current financial status: I lost hundreds of thousands after marriage. My husband is a good person. He treated the money he received from the wedding as my own, but he currently knows that I should have about 400,000 yuan in my hands. In fact, it has been used up. I don’t know how to fill this 400,000 yuan gap except to continue playing in the cryptocurrency circle.

In fact, I don’t want to play anymore, but there is no way. Only by continuing can I pay it off. Once he finds out, the marriage will be shaky. I have no choice but to use credit cards and take out loans, but I still can’t fill these gaps.

My career is also a mess. After a few years, I am still a grassroots employee. I am not liked by the boss and my salary is only enough to make ends meet. Some time ago, I made a profit of 50,000 yuan with great difficulty, but I lost it again today.

I will not confess to my family. I don’t want my family to be broken up. I will make up for my sins myself. In the future, I will eat less meals and buy fewer clothes. Even if it takes 10 or 20 years, I will pay it off and start a new life.

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