The poor have two very typical mentalities:
1. Always say "no" to opportunities;
2. Always want to get rich overnight.
No matter what opportunities you put in front of him today, he will say "no". Even if you run a restaurant successfully today, and you tell your friends and family about your successful experience and ask them to open a restaurant, can you guarantee that everyone will do it? Some people will still refuse to do it.
So this is a very typical mentality of the poor, he will say: "You can do it, but I can't!" The manifestation of getting rich overnight is that when you tell him about any business, his first question is "Can I make money?" You say "Yes", he immediately asks the second question "Is it easy?" You say "Easy", then he will ask the third question "Is it fast?" You say "Fast!" Then he will say "Okay, I'll do it!" Haha, you see, he is so naive!
Think about it, is there a way to make money easily and quickly in this world? No, even if there is, it is not our turn. So in life, we must know how to give. Why do you give? Because you give in pursuit of your dreams. People live for hope and dreams. If a person has no dreams and no pursuits, then there is no meaning in life!
In life, if you want to gain something, you have to pay for it first. If you want to gain time, you have to pay for time first. If you want to gain money, you have to pay for money first. If you want to gain hobbies, you have to sacrifice hobbies first. If you want to spend more time with your family, you have to spend less time with them first.
However, one thing is clear: your efforts in this project will be rewarded double. Just like a seed, you plant it, then water it, fertilize it, weed it, and kill insects. In the end, you will reap a return of dozens or even hundreds of times.
In life, you must know how to give. Don't be so eager for quick success and want rewards immediately. There is no free lunch in the world, and you can't succeed easily.
You must know how to give first!