What is the biggest bargain you have ever found?
It happened last month. We were originally talking about the coins that were found in the cryptocurrency circle, but I don’t know how we got off topic. A female netizen shared an interesting story:
The biggest bargain I found was finding a good husband
The first time we met was a blind date. My dad tricked me out. When I saw him, he was only 160cm tall, 4cm shorter than me, looked like a hamster, and dressed like a migrant worker. I instantly lost my spirit. So he and my dad talked in front, and I followed behind with the introducer, looking around. The introducer was a swindler who also tricked him out and tricked him into buying insurance worth hundreds of yuan, and even wanted to ask him to treat me to a meal.
I thought to myself that this guy was small, pitiful, and looked poor, and you still wanted to ask him to treat you to a meal. Is there any humanity in him? I firmly refused to agree. We walked on the road in the park for a while and then dispersed.
After I went back, I added him on WeChat and chatted with him for a few days. I found that he was very interesting and smart. He scored more than ten points higher than me in the college entrance examination. He was a science and engineering man, and his major was two of the four major tiankengs, materials chemistry!
In short, he gave me a good feeling. He asked me to go out to eat at a newly opened Internet celebrity hot pot restaurant. I estimated that there would be no seats, but I went anyway. As a result, there were really no seats. We walked for more than half an hour in the cold wind and found a spicy hot pot restaurant to eat a bowl of spicy hot pot. When we went back, he rode a motorcycle in front and I followed behind on an electric car.
Later, I found that he had a very good personality, cheerful, not anxious or worried, and I had never seen him angry. Unlike me, I am very introverted and easily anxious. I can get hoarse when arguing with my family. I don’t like to deal with people, don’t like to go out, and I have been single since birth. I don’t even have friends except my colleagues.
I am like a frog living at the bottom of a dark and muddy well. I have always lived in it and don’t think there is anything wrong with it, but on this day, he lifted the manhole cover to let the sun in, and put down a rope to wave at me, saying come up. Then I must come and have a look.
After dating for 4 months, the epidemic was relaxed and we both came out. It was so uncomfortable when we came out, I felt like I almost died, so we decided to get married quickly and not die as singles! I am in my 30s and he is one year older than me. My mother is very happy that I can get married, and his mother is also happy
It was unbelievable. My mother told his family that we didn't ask for a dowry, and they could do whatever they wanted. As a result, he directly transferred 12.8 to me that night, saying it was a dowry. I was so happy that I saved the money. He took me to a gold shop to buy three golds. We found that the price of gold was very high, so we decided not to buy it and wait for gold to be cheaper. As a result, the price of gold soared and never fell again.
Because I was socially anxious and didn't want to have a wedding, I felt that I couldn't handle such a big scene. He agreed, so his mother went to take care of it, booked a hall, and had more than a dozen tables for banquets. We invited the guests, but didn't have a wedding. Everyone had a good meal. Our ugly wedding photos were played on the big screen, and the background music was fade to black, which I had dreamed of playing at my wedding when I was a child.
We got back all the favors we had given out over the years, and he gave me all the money, and I saved it all. The food in that restaurant was very good, much better than many big hotels that used pre-made dishes for wedding banquets. That day I had my own wedding banquet.
His house is located in a remote area, so he said he wanted to buy me a car to drive to work. We went to the Si'er's store together. Later, he really bought me an Yidong A, which cost 8.6. I like this car very much. I crashed it twice, but it was intact. He also said that he would give me all his salary. I didn't mention this matter. He gave me the card himself, and I was really happy. No one has ever been so nice to me, trusted me so much, and gave me money without any precautions. As a result, I found that he was not poor. In fact, his income was quite good. Our combined annual income was nearly 25,000. He even had a house in Hefei, and I also had a house. After working for nearly 10 years, I saved 70+. With the money he gave me, the car sponsorship from my parents, and a wave of money from marriage, our savings came to 150+. In our small county, it is enough to support a child, not to mention that we are both thrifty people.
So we had a baby, but unfortunately, I had to stay in bed to protect the fetus at only 22 weeks. His mother came to take care of me, and I found that his mother and I got along very well. His mother treated me better than my biological mother. She cooked delicious dishes and kept the house so clean. She would buy a lot of fruits and cut them for me to eat, fill a hot water bottle, pour water, and wash my pants. If I moved the slightest, she would ask me what I needed with concern and she would listen to everything I said. We always spoke softly and communicated well, unlike me at home with my mother, who always had to scream and scream until my voice was hoarse.
I used to think I had a bad temper and maybe depression, but now it seems that I am not bad tempered or depressed at all. I have been married for a year and I have never spoken loudly to him or his family. The atmosphere at home is very good and there is always laughter.
I really found a big bargain! It is not an exaggeration to say that the ancestors' graves are smoking. Last month, he was promoted to associate professor! My husband is also single from birth. He has been on numerous blind dates, but no woman likes him. Fortunately, I have a problem with my aesthetics and I like him (corrected to: many women like him, but they have no jobs and most of them are divorced with one child after my husband's strong request). He has no bad habits, does not smoke, drink, gamble or indulge in games. Because he is small, he can't beat me even if he wants to domestic violence. His only hobbies are Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance.
The more I look at him now, the cuter he feels. Maybe it's because I like hamsters. He really looks like...
Although the above story has limited direct connection with the cryptocurrency circle, we can extract some generally applicable life wisdom and investment philosophy from it. On the road to pursuing financial freedom and a happy life, we need to be cautious, keep learning, plan properly, and cherish every bit of support and companionship around us.
