In the past two years, I have discovered that some of my middle-aged friends generally seem to have completely changed since they reached the age of 35-40.

Those who like material things have stopped buying cars and watches long ago and started collecting tea cakes, old wine, and cigars; those who are more wealthy collect purple clay teapots, famous calligraphy and paintings, and oil paintings.

Those who pursue spirituality begin to study Buddhism, Tantra, Zen, and Tibetan Buddhism. Some even decorate a Buddhist hall at home and meditate every day.

I'm still very superficial and can't understand what they are doing. My summary is: decreased sexual desire. #BTC