The great road is wordless; everyone has a different family environment. The teachings and behaviors of family members, as well as the people and events one encounters while growing up, are all different. This leads to different ways of thinking and understanding for each person. Communicating and debating with people from different levels is merely a pointless consumption. The wise do not speak; words should be spoken to the right person! Only those on the same frequency can understand, respect, and attract each other.