Why do some people just have a strong aura at first glance?
The answer is not due to clothing, nor is it because one is in a 'high position.' You can easily find counterexamples in your own life.
Some people, even if they are not wealthy and do ordinary jobs, still exude a different kind of aura.
This kind of aura comes from the focus of inner energy.
And this focus reflects a person's ability to control their 'attention.'
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Our attention naturally tends to fixate and linger on things and scenes that have brought us joy.
This is why many people still tend to play old games from ten years ago when they play games. When choosing food, they still prefer the flavors that brought them wonderful memories in childhood. When watching movies, they often choose sequels that provided them with pleasant viewing experiences or works by the same director.
This is also why many people, after developing a certain hobby in their childhood, will not change it for the rest of their lives.
I have a friend who has maintained a hobby for 20 years: playing five accounts of 'Dream of the Red Chamber' every day. Even his wife says that on weekends, when they lie in bed, he will set an alarm to get up and complete tasks.
We do not desire change as much as we imagine.
If familiar things can bring us enough joy, we tend to remain unchanged forever.
Perhaps it is because of this that 'controlling your own attention' has become an exceptionally valuable quality. Because it means you can control what you like through this ability.
You should know that whatever you spend time on will yield results in that area.
Those who act solely based on instinct will always be just one of the masses unless they are extremely lucky. Especially in a situation where countless businesses and products are trying their best to capture your attention.
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So, how can you take control of your attention?
In fact, the answer to this question is surprisingly simple— we are born with this ability but rarely apply it consciously.
The essence of controlling attention is to pay attention to your own attention.
First, try closing your eyes and recalling what you focused on in the last few seconds.
Practice this every day until you can do it in an instant without closing your eyes. You will have the ability to pay attention to your own attention.
Next, all you need to do is let the existence you want to pay attention to appear in your memory.
The energy of your body will focus due to the steadfastness of your attention.
This is the true source of the aura.