The more fulcrums in life, the more stable the core can be.
If your life fulcrum is only your partner, then you will be anxious, insecure, and worried about gains and losses all day long. You like to ask what to do and why, but you can't leave and hold on tightly, making people want to escape.
The same applies to other single fulcrums.
If your life fulcrum is not only love, but also your work, friends, hobbies, your life goals, sports and fitness, etc., then you will be very relaxed and more stable.
Many people seem to have a job, but in fact, they find that their partner is their spiritual pillar when they fall in love. If the other party doesn't like their performance a little bit and doesn't surround themselves all the time, they will start to be very anxious and have wild thoughts.
And those who really live well seem to be centered on their partner, but in fact they still love themselves and pay attention to their own values. They are the ones who really have self-subjectivity.
