1. You can’t make true friends by drinking.
2. If a daughter marries far away, it is equivalent to raising her in vain.
3. The best relationship is not about giving gifts or treating others, but about following the "Mehrabin Law".
4. After retirement, do not go back to your former workplace, as people will forget you when you are gone.
5. It is better to rely on social security than on children for retirement.
6. Don’t let yourself be too idle. 90% of family conflicts are caused by idleness; being too idle is a disaster.
7. When renting a house, don’t choose the second floor or the rooftop as it is too troublesome.
8. No matter how rich your relatives are, they will not spend a penny on you.
9. No matter how powerful your friend is, he won’t let you use his power.
10. In summer, use air conditioning less and fans more, sit less and walk more.
11. You must pay attention to your health. Without health, everything else is meaningless.
12. Buy less things from people you know. The more familiar they are, the more likely they are to cheat you.
13. Don’t visit relatives too often. You should understand that people far away are more fragrant than those near.
14. Don’t bother with marriage when you reach 50. Just make do with it.
15. Don’t introduce your partner to your relatives. If things don’t turn out well for them, it’s your fault.
16. Happiness is actually very simple. It is just being able to eat, drink and sleep.
17. Someone who cheats you once will cheat you a second time.
18. After the death of their parents, the best way for brothers and sisters to get along is to abide by the "37 rule".
19. Never help others take care of their children.
20. You will never get rich by working. If you want to get rich, don’t work.
21. No one will care how much injustice you have suffered. They will only accuse you of being ignorant when you have an emotional outburst.
22. Don’t visit relatives when you are poor. The more you visit, the more heartbroken you will be. This is reality!
23. Don’t have too high expectations of your daughter-in-law. She can take care of your son, but she has no obligation to take care of you.
24. If you don’t like something, don’t want to help with something, or don’t want to borrow money, you should be brave enough to lend it to you. Anyway, you don’t have to rely on their mood for a living.
25. When you are old, don’t be too capable. Capable people are not in good health when they are old. When you fall ill in bed, you will find that others spend your money, but you suffer the consequences.
26. In fact, most of your friends are consuming your money and energy. The fewer friends you have, the better your life will be. The more friends you have, the more troubles you will have.
27. The grandchildren that I raised myself, whether they are grandchildren or grandchildren, gradually become estranged from me as they grow up.
28. Money is never enough; work is never done; worries are never exhausted; suffering is never unspeakable. Don't worry about what will happen in the future. There will always be a way out when the car reaches the mountain, and there will always be a way out when the boat reaches the bridge. When things come to an end, there will definitely be a solution. Don't be scared by difficulties.
29. Don’t make friends randomly. It’s hard to find a close friend. Just be together if you have destiny.
30. No one can be good forever, and no flower can stay red forever. Humans cannot escape the natural law of aging and losing their beauty.
31. The relationship in marriage is to open your eyes wide before marriage and close one eye after marriage.
32. Many people will forget your good deeds just because of one bad thing you did.
33. When people get old, 99% of their worries come from their relationships with their children and relatives. Learn to let go.
34. Say hello in advance when your in-laws come to visit you; don’t make a surprise visit.
35. When giving gifts together, if others give 600 yuan, you cannot give 500 yuan. This is the rule.
36. When you visit someone’s home, remember not to go to the toilet or help wash the dishes.
37. No matter how good the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is, they should not live together if they can avoid it.
38. What convinces a person is never reason but the wall.
39. No matter what achievements your children make, tell others that they are just ordinary people who need food to eat.
40. The world is bustling with people, all for the sake of profit; the world is in turmoil, all for the sake of profit.
41. The closest people in this life are not your blood relatives, but the money and faith you own.
42. It's not that the road will be easier if you have more friends, but that you will have more friends if you walk the road well. Don't get it wrong.
43. Stop meddling in other people’s business and take things easy. Everything is trivial except life and death.
44. When facing relatives and friends, pretend to be rich less and cry about being poor more.
45. If your children don’t live up to their expectations, no matter how much money they make, it will not be enough for them to spend.
46. Friends are just passers-by in life, and will eventually be wiped out, leaving only family members.
47. The less clean a person is, the longer he lives.
48. Eat three meals a day on time, and eat until you are 70% to 80% full. Don’t eat too much.