🎈People, if you want to turn things around and become stronger, you must learn to control yourself. #BTC
I have nothing to do on the weekends, so I write something and share three of the core growth factors that I think have emerged in recent years.
Especially the third point, I think it is extremely important! It is also the fastest way for an uneducated person like me to improve.
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1. People say that trouble comes from the mouth. Many things and many reasons are caused by the mouth. It is better to shut up than to open the door.
In this society, many people’s relationships are ruined by the words of others.
Take me for example. In the past few years, I have been playing with the Internet and crypto. Many people around me talk about this and that, whether right or wrong, but I rarely respond to them.
This is not because I am arrogant, but I stay away from such villains and focus on spending my time and energy on the right things.
Remember: you won’t lose a piece of meat or a dime if others say something about you, so don’t care too much about what others say about you.
(Anyone who talks about other people’s gossips is definitely a gossiper himself) Control your mouth!
2. Stay away from meaningless social interactions. As the old saying goes, the more friends you have, the easier your life will be.
In reality, you will have more friends only if you walk the right path.
At the age of thirty, you should strive hard! Try to stay away from meaningless social activities, drinking, and playing cards.
Just work hard and don't worry about how many friends you have.
What do you mean by friend?
Try it when you have no money. When you have no money, everything around you is real.
A very realistic and heartbreaking sentence.
Friends in society become friends because of interests. Looking back, my friends are only those I made during my school days, and they can be considered as real friends. Many people nowadays are just acquaintances, just acquaintances.
So, it’s time to strive for success, and you must not choose to lie down.
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3. This is the most important point I want to say.
There are a lot of unfairness in society, but time is fair!
When you have time, don't relax your laziness and don't enjoy your retirement life before you reach retirement age.
It is very important to study and read more when you have time.
Maybe if I say I read, many people will laugh at me. 😅
Indeed, when I was in school, I didn’t study. When I was in junior high school, there were very few people who could use smartphones. I slept in class and flirted with girls after class. I knew I was not good at studying. I entered society at the age of 13. At that time, I also felt that studying was meaningless... My neighbor could only write his own name, but he was able to open a factory.
As for studying, when I entered society, I still had no feeling...
📌But when I wanted to make progress in my career, I found that my cultural level could not keep up with the progress of the Internet. This is also the reason why I have never made it big...
Knowledge may not be used in our reality, but it is stored in our minds. In our lives and work, it may be activated suddenly one day. One day, you can use this thinking to do more with less effort on the basis of the original work, and what you do will be like a fish in water.
📌So reading is the fastest way for poor people to turn over a new leaf. I am not referring to finding a good job by reading. It is not... Reading is to improve your cognition! Use cognition to change yourself.
I used to feel sleepy when reading, but now I advise people to read more books. Because the knowledge and thoughts in these books can be stored in our heads, and when we deal with something, these thoughts will jump out to help you solve all problems.
Read more books. This is the fastest way for ordinary people like us to turn our lives around.
It is better to know how to keep than to know how to earn. Even if you earn money by tricks or luck, you will eventually return it to society due to your lack of cognition. Only when your cognition is constantly improving can you truly have the possibility of wealth.
🎈Talk less and do more, stay away from meaningless people and things.
Focus on your career and learn more, and you will become a different person.
If you can listen and understand today, you will thank yourself in the future. Instead of thanking me, thank you for understanding it at that time, not the nonsense I said. ❤️ Keep it up!