Li Xiaoming, a graduate of Tsinghua University, is a man with a lot of money.

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He was determined to work as a civil servant. After graduating from Tsinghua University, he finally passed the civil service exam for the local municipal bureau after intensive preparation and was assigned as a first-level clerk. His parents praised him for his promising future, and his mother bought him a G63, which cost nearly 3 million yuan. His father thought the car was not heavy enough for the company, and suggested that he buy a sedan to keep a low profile.

Xiao Ming and his mother agreed. The next day, his father bought him a Bentley sedan, which also cost 3 million yuan. Xiao Ming began to feel troubled. He knew that his family's money came from legitimate business, and he could definitely drive this Bentley, but Xiao Ming also knew that the units within the system were not like his company, and it would be inappropriate for him to drive such an expensive car to work. However, he had just graduated from college and was just 22 years old. Li Xiaoming, this non-existent person, came to me and asked: "I don't want my leaders and colleagues to think that I am pretending and scold me behind my back as a mentally retarded rich second generation, but I really want to drive the car I like. I have never caused trouble for my family since I was a child. I also got into a good university and found a good job. I have never failed a course. I have also donated money to disaster areas and adopted stray dogs. Do I deserve to drive such a car?" I told Xiao Ming: "You drive a luxury car to work in the public system to get a feeling that others can't experience, so you must be prepared to lose pesticides."

Xiao Ming asked: "Lost dog" I said: "You can only park in the corner in the future. Even if you arrive at the company parking lot at 5 o'clock in the morning and there is no parking space, you have to park in the corner, and you have to park very standardly, more standard than the parking space in the driving school test, and the front of the car must always be in the middle." Xiao Ming said: "What if I come late and there are only parking spaces near the office building, and no corner parking spaces?" I said: "Then you can park in the parking lot outside and spend money. You are taking drugs, but you can't park your car in a conspicuous position in the front row, and don't block the route of any car under any circumstances. You have to muffle your car, and the exhaust sound should be similar to that of the battery, otherwise if you step on the accelerator too hard, something will happen. In general, in the company compound, this 3 million car should be as wretched as a mouse, do you understand?"

Xiao Ming said, "I understand." I said, "This has just begun, so keep listening. If you drive this kind of car into the compound of the unit, you lose the right to argue, the right to debate, and the right to be angry. This is fair. If you want to drive a 3 million car in a place where 3 million cars are not suitable, you will lose something. You are not qualified to argue, so you argue. If you argue, you are just a rich kid who is young and arrogant and has no sense of superiority. Others argue, so they argue. If you argue, you are arrogant and self-righteous. If others park their car in front, then they park it, but if you park your car in front, you are arrogant. That means you are a little emotional, that means you are just a young man throwing a tantrum and treating the unit as your own home."

That means you dislike the canteen, that means you want to improve the food. If you don't eat in the canteen, that means you dislike the system, and you want to eat separately from your colleagues and leaders. In the office, if others complain about the temperature being too cold or too hot, they can just use the remote control, but you'd better endure it. Others can move the broom as they please, but you'd better endure it. Others can leave work earlier and eat earlier, but you'd better endure it. Do you understand what I mean?" Xiao Ming said: "How can I not think so much? Anyway, the car is bought with my own money, I drive it normally, I don't care what others think, it's not like I don't work hard!"

I said, "Xiao Ming, you can give it a try. You have to consider the nature of the unit, the mood of your colleagues, and the attitude of your leaders. Everyone will educate you in countless ways to let you know. If you want to make everyone unhappy, they don't have to be happier. But if you grow up a little bit and do all of what I just said, then don't worry, you will be the popular little star in the unit, and your mother will praise you for being low-key, capable of work, steady in doing things, and sensible at a young age. Your parents really educated you well.

Leaders will give you more opportunities. Your strict self-requirements are not a sacrifice for yourself, but the only emotional investment in your career prospects. " This case sharing